Tag: Gender superiority

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Happiness comes from within. If you are not happy with who you are, you will never be happy with what you have. It is not your partner’s duty to make you happy. Happiness is a personal decision. You can either choose to be happy or miserable. Your partner can only contribute to your happiness/misery. Choose to be happy and only settle for a partner that makes concerted effort to make you happier than you can ever be on your own. If you not happy find out why and not who to blame.

 

 

Relationship/marriage is not about finding someone that will complete you in order to get respect and approval from people/society. It is about finding someone who loves, care, values and respect you for who you are and wholeheartedly wants to be with you and not someone else.

 

 

Relationship is not a battlefield for superiority of one gender over another. Don’t be with someone who want to lord it over your life just because he is a male. Be with someone who truly loves you and place your happiness as a priority. Someone who is willing to do anything to make you happy, comfortable and feel appreciated as a woman: And don’t be with someone who is not willing to respect your leadership. Someone who continuously challenged your authority for no good reason other than to emasculate you as a man.

Happy New Year Friends.

Welcome to year 2019.

I will be adding a new category title “No Romance Without Finance” to my blog this year. This category will contain step by step instructions on how to produce a particular product which you can use to start a small/medium business which will generate income for you. Watch out

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Competition is not ideal in a healthy relationship. It breeds a hostile atmosphere. Relationship is about togetherness not battle of the sexes. Relationship is not about fighting for which gender is superior. Healthy relationship involves two partners supporting and understanding each other. The right mindset in a relationship should be to see the failure of one as the failure of all: And same for success. Partners should encourage each other to break boundaries not compete with each other for who will be more successful and richer. See your partner as your team mate not as your competitor. When you support each other, you will grow, succeed and stay together.

 

Be careful of who you tell everything that happens in your relationship and who you run to for relationship advice. Most people you see as friends are not really your friends. Oftentimes they get jealous and bitter when you tell them about the happenings in your relationship. Most times your friends wish they have the kind of relationship you have that you are still complaining one or two things about to them. Human are naturally jealous and envious when they see people who have what they lack. And very few people can keep their jealous/envy under control, most people usually allow it to control them. This fact can make your friends give you advice that will make you do stuff that will ruin your relationship or even snatch away your partner from you. So before you take advice from a friend, you should always ask yourself will it help improve your relationship or make things worse.

 

Faithfulness is becoming a rare trait these days. If you want a faithful partner you must first choose to be a faithful person yourself. Then you must be determined never to settle for a cheating/unfaithful partner. Work on yourself to get to the state of mind when you tell a cheating partner to be faithful or lose you irrespective of how much you love and want to be with that person. Grow and develop yourself in every aspect of your life. When you work on yourself to become someone of great value it will become difficult for you to tolerate shit in a relationship. Make yourself that partner that brings value to a relationship apart from money(man) and your body(woman). Make yourself that partner that someone is afraid to lose because it will be difficult to replace him/her. Be a faithful and value adding partner.