When we find ourselves in a toxic relationship where we are being treated badly by our partner, we hope they are going to change for the better especially when the partner used to be sweet and good to us.
We put up with their not so good behaviours, doing a little complaining here and there but not doing anything definite to be taken serious by the partner.
So things remain the same or get worse.
The mistake most of us make is we don’t realize that its up to us to determine how people treat us.
Truth be told, you can’t change anybody- people are who they chose to be.
But your power lies in the ability to determine who stays or doesn’t stay in your life.
Now, that is a boundless power.
Until you realize and harness this power it might be difficult to be truly happy.
It is through this power we re-enforce or encourage how people should treat us.
You must know that what you encourage is what continues.
How do you encourage people to treat you in a certain way?
You do so by putting up with their actions.
When you put up with something you give a signal that such is okay with you.
I believe its time to stop enduring what is tearing you apart from within.
Take a stand for yourself.
Know your value and worth.
Don’t be in a relationship where you are not respected, appreciated and treated well.
If you are not being treated the way you want in your relationship, its better to get out of such relationship.
Your goal should be to be with someone that knows your value and treats you better than you think you deserve.