Questions are so important in life because they help us find out answers to stuff that troubles our mind.
Asking questions from others help us to decipher their intentions toward us especially in a romantic relationship.
It is always important to ask questions and get clarifying answers instead of assuming things.
Most people usually assume their position in other people’s lives when it comes to relationship.
Have had stories of ladies and guys who assumed their position in other people’s lives only to find out later that the other person never see them as they have thought they mean to them.
If he didn’t ask you out, don’t assume you have a relationship just because he calls you often and cares about you or uses sweet words for you.
If she didn’t say yes, you don’t have a relationship.
Don’t assume you do because she visits or check up on you. What is not clearly defined usually results to waste of time and effort.
Assumption in relationships usually results to complication.
It pays to ask questions in order to clearly know your stand in a relationship.
Don’t think he wants you, let him spell it out by asking you out and making it official or you do the asking out yourself. Don’t think she wants you, let her spell it out by saying yes to your advances in words and actions.
Asking questions about where you stand in a relationship and where the relationship is heading to is one sure way to avoid heartbreak and waste of your precious time and effort.
So never go with the flow or string along just because you are tired of being single or carried away by the sweetness of person towards you.
Ask questions to be sure you are on the same page except you are not after something serious. Be sure he/she feels the same way about you.
Don’t waste your precious time in an imaginary happily ever after that doesn’t have a beginning.
This article is actually written to address two important questions most ladies usually ask at the wrong time from guys they love and want to have something with for a long period of time.
The wrong timing will not let you get the right answer(truth) and will make you vulnerable to guys that just want to use and dump you.
1. What are we: This is a very important question which most ladies ask at the wrong time.
The answer to this question will determine the foundation and direction of your relationship with a guy.
This question must have a concrete answer before you decide to get deeply involved with any guy.
Your relationship should be clearly defined.
It should never be assumed. Never assume you have a relationship with a guy just because he checks on you often or he is always sweet towards you.
Don’t be deceived by constant calls, freebies and sweetness. Guys will do whatever they need to do in order to go down with a lady without having anything clearly defined with her.
That’s why we have Friends with benefits.
Don’t be a victim except that is what you are looking for.
The right time to ask this question is before getting emotional attached and intimate with a guy.
Never make a mistake of going down with a guy before knowing your place in his life.
Asking a guy what are we after sex will make you appear as a joke and slut/cheap girl.
A guy that wants to take you serious might even have a second thought because he might assume that’s how you do with lots of guys even if you don’t.
2. Will you marry me: This is another important question ladies often ask at a wrong time. Most ladies ask this question before giving their body to a guy.
This question is often asked to know if the new guy wouldn’t run away after getting what he wants like the other guys have done in time pass.
Ladies I want you to think like a guy for a second.
If you are a guy and all you are after is sex and nothing more.
After trying everything to get her to bed but failed then you discovered that all it takes to eat the honey pot is to make a marriage promise.
Wouldn’t you make it and achieve your set goals.
Am sure if you haven’t fall victim to this, you must have heard about ladies that have been deceived by men with marriage promises just to get what they want.
If you want to know if a guy will marry you or not pay rapt attention to his words(both spoken and unspoken) and actions towards you on a regular basis.
When man has truly decide want to spend the rest of his life with you, you will know by the way he relates, cares and corrects you.
He will let you know about his dreams, aspiration and future plans. And you will definitely feature in those plans.
If a man truly loves you and foresee a future with you, he is going to factor you in into everything he does and it will be obvious to you and everyone around.
I hear ladies say you can’t know if a man truly loves you but I beg to differ.
Most ladies see the warning signs but as human beings we get easily carried away by emotion and chose to close our eyes to glaring back off signs.
In other words, we see what we want to see and ignore the reality.
If you pay rapt attention to your man actions and words towards you, you can easily tell his intentions towards you no matter how much of a liar and pretender he is.
The bottomline is this :
Define your relationship with a man before getting too intimate with him and be sure of what you want in a relationship before deciding to enter into one.
Finally, before you decide to invest your heart, body, soul and spirit into a relationship be sure it is something with a future so you don’t have reason to regret later in life about wasted time and effort or become a hater of all men because of what few men did to you.
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