Don’t make the mistake of seeking people’s permission or approval in your pursuit of your passion and vision. They will deliberately say things to discourage you and even back it up with their self-made genuine reasons. Very few people encourage others to go after their dreams. Be your own main source of inspiration and motivation.
Be careful of who you want to marry. Some people are not comfortable seeing their partner succeeding and flourishing than them. Pay attention to your partners behaviour while dating so you don’t end up marrying someone that will frustrate your life, dreams and ambition. Don’t continue to stay with someone that is threaten by your success.
Make sure you first figured out what your life essence is, before you begin to search for a life partner. Knowing what your life is all about will help you to figure out exactly the kind of person you need in your life. Every life has a purpose on earth, find yours. Your partner should be your soulmate who will help you to realise your innermost aspiration. You should have a life outside of the relationship. This makes the relationship more exciting and lively. It will help you to have something to discuss about every time hence there wouldn’t be boredom or stalemate in the communication between the two of you in the relationship.
It is a good thing to fight for love but make sure you are not the only one fighting for the relationship. It should be two sided. Only fight for the love of the person that wouldn’t think twice about fighting for your love too. Don’t allow anyone to manipulate you. Fighting for love doesn’t mean you fight for your lover’s love and attention. Love and attention should be given freely in a relationship not fought for. It means fighting against anything that want to destroy the relationship and it is a fight for the two of you in the relationship.
When someone hurt you in a relationship by jilting you. The best thing you can do for yourself is to move on with your life. Never to wallow in self pity. And make yourself happy no matter what. Don’t give anyone power over your life to control your happiness after hurting your feelings and breaking your heart. Pick yourself up. Make the person wonder what is going on with you.