Love and human beings are inseparable. Love is just an abstract thing which totally depend on human to be felt or expressed.
Love is a beautiful thing but human can chose to be good or wicked.
Your experience of love is totally dependent on the persons you encountered in your quest to find love.
If you come in contact with a wholesome person you will have a wholesome love experience. On the other hand, if you come in contact with a hurting person, what will most definitely happen is they will hurt you too either intentionally or otherwise.
I observe that there is a lot of bitter, broken and hurting persons has a result of hurt and disappointment from past failed relationships resulting in a vicious cycle of unhealthy and abusive relationships in recent time.
If you are hurting or broken hearted rushing into another relationship is not the best choice for you.
Oftentimes hurting people rush into the arm of another romantic partner not out of love but loneliness.
If you are hurting or broken hearted healing process should be your number one priority not another love affair.
When you are hurting you wouldn’t be in the right frame of mind to give your best in a relationship.
You will be skeptical about love and everything about the new partner. You will have trust and commitment issues. You will be absent minded in the relationship. All of these and many more will directly or indirectly hurt your new partner.
It is important to ensure you seek healing for your hurting and broken heart before you consider sharing the heart with someone new.
Don’t let someone who have no idea about who hurt you suffer for the pain and hurt you experienced in your past relationship.