Most of us are used to being in competition with everyone around us because of our upbringing and schooling.
We see others as our competitors that we must outdo by all means possible.
The problem is most of still carry this mentality into our romantic relationship.
In a romantic relationship partners are suppose to complete, compliment, support and encourage each other.
You must never see your partner as your competitor.
The two of you have technically become one. You should root for each other.
Literally you should be each other’s number one cheerleader.
Don’t ever see the success of your partner as a threat to you.
It should be a thing of joy to you when you see your partner achieve greatness.
It shows you are a value adder and growth facilitator if someone you are with is making progress.
And if your partner achieve more success the better its for you because you will both enjoy the benefit.
So instead of turning yourself into a stumbling block on the path of your partner to greater, make yourself their stepping stone.
Take delibrate effort to bring out the best in your partner.
Encourage them to be their best possible. Let “The success of one is the success of all” be your mantra in your relationship.
Instead thwarting the growth of your partner, work harder to achieve more so that both of you can have more successes to celebrate together.
This quote concerns men the most