Most times we let ourselves get carried away by the idea of an ideal or perfect lover somewhere that we miss out on the opportunity of seeing the beauty and uniqueness of the person we already have in our life.
I must tell you that there is no perfect person anywhere.
And there is no perfect relationship anywhere.
Every individual have their flaws, secret and shortcomings just like you.
Every relationship has its good times and bad times. The only way to enjoy a loving and healthy relationship is to see beyond the flaws and imperfections of the person you are with.
Find their strengths and celebrate it.
Learn to accept people the way they are, flaws and all if their flaws wouldn’t cause you physical, mental and emotional harm.
The important thing is to find someone who is willing to be with you through thick and thin.
When you find such a person build a great relationship with them.
True love is not found but built.