10 Tips For Marital Happiness

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1. Never forget the feeling you had when you first started dating and eventually agreed to get married to each other.

You must have felt happy, excited and lucky to have him/ her in your life.

Don’t let that feeling fizzle out because of everyday hustle and bustle.

Keep the fire of your love aflame. It is the key to happiness in your marriage.

 

2. Don’t get too familiar with your spouse to the extent that “I love you” will lose its meaning.

That short sentence is very powerful and conveys an important message to the receiver when it is said genuinely.

Make it your habit to always tell your partner that you love them as much as possible.

It serves well to remind them of your love so there won’t be reason to doubt it.

 
3. Never take for granted the little things your spouse do for you on a daily basis.

Don’t allow yourself to slip into that stinking thinking where you start taking for granted what your spouse is doing to make you happy just because you believe its their duty.

When you begin to appreciate every little thing your spouse did for, it will make them happy and feel appreciated.

This will energise them to want to do more. It also encourages them to want to go the extra mile just to make you happy.

 
4. Complain less, and give more of compliments.

It is much easier to notice all the little things that our spouse is not doing right but forgetting about all great and wonderful things they have been doing.

Too much of Complaining kills the morale and happiness in our relationship.

You must learn to be generous with compliments and frugal with complaint.

Focus on every little thing your spouse is doing right and compliment them.

This will encourage them to do more.

Also compliment their look. Make conscious effort to let your spouse know they look great.

Let them know that you admire their physical features.

It boost their confidence and happiness.

 

5. Make time for each other. Go on a special date.

When you are together enjoy each other’s company.

Every once in awhile get rid of all distraction and focus on each other alone.

This will make stronger the bond between two of you.

Let it be clear to your spouse that he/she is your number one priority.

Take a stroll in the park just holding each other’s hand and talking about just anything.

 
6. Sit and make a future plans together.

Set marital and career goals together.

Pursuing and achieving success together will add spices to your love life.

Creating plans together enables a perfect synergy between two of you.

You become team members committed to giving each other the needed support and encouragement for success and greatness.

 
7. Surprise your partner with gifts every once in a while.

Make it your habit to surprise your wife/husband by buying stuff you know they need before saying it.

This will make them happy and feel you really understand and love them.

 
8. Pay attention to their mood. Listen to everything they are saying and listen more to what they left unsaid.

Most time what is left unsaid is more important and key to understanding your lover.

Pay attention to their facial expressions and body language.

They say alot about what is going on in their mind.

Make it clear to your partner that you are committed to making them happy.

They will surely do same for you.

 
9. Don’t be secretive.

Let sincerity and honesty be your watchwords when it comes to dealing with your husband/wife.

Do not hide anything from your partner.

Being unnecessarily secretive can give your partner the impression that you are not being faithful to him/her.

This damages trust and happiness in relationships.

 
10. Be 100% committed, loyal and faithful to your partner.

Isn’t that what we expected from them too.

Anything otherwise hurt and saddens the heart.

Do not cheat on your spouse.

Extra-marital affairs does more harm than good.
Don’t be overwhelm by the long list,you can practice one tip at a time.

This is dedicated to the married couples but also applicable to serious relationship and courtship.

I hope this is very helpful. Please drop your comments, let me know your take.

I wish everyone find happiness within and also in their relationships and marriages.

Thank you for your time.

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4 thoughts on “10 Tips For Marital Happiness

  1. “This will energise them to want to do more”, “This will encourage them to do more”.
    Isn’t it an attempt of manipularing?
    But, that’s just a little thought, no more.
    I hope everyone read the article will learn the main idea of it – to be honest and sincere with a partner.☺

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    1. Its not manipulation but encouragement..The words are totally different..Whatever you encourages will continue whether its a bad or good thing, its just a simple psychology…Showing someone appreciation for what they do will encourage them to do more…Do you think its okay not to show appreciation for what one’s partner did no matter how small?

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